To disclaim, I totally respect your gender identity. But I have a question as a cisgender person. There are some, maybe a lot, of aspects of social female identity that I don't identify with, but I definitely feel in the majority that I identify with my gender and really like my sex. I like my boobs and vagina. I'd so much love an explanation of your correspondence between gender and sex! If it's too intrusive I completely understand.

there’s rarely a case where i’m not willing/ eager to explain this kind of stuff so never feel like it’s too intrusive!! also this is a good thing so i’m going to publish this but if you want me to delete it please tell me

anyway, that’s super normal because society’s idea of a woman is pretty specific and doesn’t account for personal preference and it’s really… weird!! gender and sex don’t correspond. gender is a very unnatural idea, really. there’s no reason for gender to exist at all but our society isn’t about to drop an idea, regardless of how harmful and noninclusive it is, that’s been around since civilizations began to form. i really… hate my genitalia but i wouldn’t be happy with a penis either i wish i had barbie crotch. my sex really doesn’t matter to me (especially considering the fact that i’m asexual), so i definitely don’t think about it when considering my gender. 

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